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CleavageFan4U 66M
69374 posts
7/16/2018 6:42 pm

If I told you I thought this was a silly question, would it reveal my vote?

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redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
7/16/2018 6:50 pm

Kinda depends on how spontaneous is described. I've had sex with some women on the first date. I had no expectation of it but things went that way. It didn't keep us from getting together again and with a couple it went on for many months.

The thing about this site is - the sex aspect is out front and not taboo. That can take away the "wondering if" thing so you can be attentive to making a good connection.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


Yours_4A_knight 59M

7/16/2018 8:02 pm

I feel like chemistry is on going spontonaity. But if you have a sexual encounter with a person intending that it is going to be a fun for you both one time thing, then you will have to climb out of that hole if you change your mind.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


billfla5 74M
24 posts
7/16/2018 8:24 pm

Best way meet in public chat and go from there do whatever comes natural as long as both agree


proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
7/17/2018 6:25 am

Certainly not my lady ...
After all, what's chemistry without spontaneity in sex ?

Cheers - P


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
7/17/2018 4:22 pm

I swing so it's a free for all!


Jack351982 42M
16 posts
7/18/2018 7:16 am

great post


Jagermann78 45M

7/18/2018 4:54 pm

No surprise here... most men will say “No”. Hookup and then disappear. This is a difficult question to answer, I think.

Spontaneity is great! However; I am certain that more often than not it will produce a “random hookup” result. So the answer is Yes.

One could also argue that if the chemistry isn’t already there the clothes would stay on. So the answer is “No”.

Perhaps the chemistry is there and they turn out to be a bad lay or some characteristic turns up that you might ignore if you formed a different connection beforehand....”maybe”?

Then again. Finding that “one” relationship is a needle in a haystack to begin with. For example; this site. Sure we can filter searches and narrow it down to a target area, or eliminate based on qualities we think we want or don’t. May times I think you will find that the specifics of a search would change from one search to the next depending on your particular mood that moment.

So the question is; should one be willing to roll the dice? Realistically, I think if the guy is into you for more than quick easy sex I don’t think it is going to hurt anything. You just have to figure out if he is after more than a quick romp. My personal opinion is you should always vet someone first but there is no set time limit for too soon or not soon enough.

J.


_IKanCu2_ 105M

7/19/2018 11:54 pm

:
][f it doesn't click, it ain't going to tic.
Like mindedness first. How do ][ know what Your interested in ?
What*z the conversation going to be about ? The weather ? Music ? Book*z ?
Nothing wrong going out for an order of French Frie* z & a Coke(Pepsi).
Park walk, Mall walk around and people watch ?
This is Rocket science or dynamite, but it*z not Reality TV or movie.
Right now,,,,,,,, ]['m to relaxed to be impatient with stipulation*z and Castle*z.
They all come to test the water*z , but rare do they walk new s/-/ore* z ~

Good Luck with it All !


Whatsitgoing2B06 63M

7/23/2018 4:46 am

Everything happens on its own time. It's either meant to be or it's not. IMO.


luvgluv19 75M

8/10/2018 1:01 pm

If it works, it works now or never. Growing into a relationship is chancy


TwiliteTwink 59M
9 posts
8/26/2018 8:16 pm

I wash my hands before I eat. I cook my food before I eat that. I've learn over time about how long it usually takes, and it didn't take a hundred experimental failures to figure things out in a way that makes sense to me. So I don't understand what is the big rush for immediate hookup or making a beeline to a bedroom. Shit man you haven't even explored the boundaries of your partner yet so probably don't know what they are. So I really don't see how gratifying an experience to expect to be. Hang out. Talk. Get explicit. If the person isn't willing to talk about it, they're not likely to want to sprint one-night-stand to a bedroom with you either. It doesn't need to take weeks or months, but even a few dates or one measly week is a small investment that will probably pay itself back in spades once you hit paydirt. I've NEVER been a fan of "spontaneous sex". Enough said. That's just my two cents though... to each their own....


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