I have a busy life with family and a demanding job, so my free time is very limited. I've been on AFF before with a friend of mine, and we found some great couples to play with. Now, I'm looking for playmates for me. I'm in good shape, D/D free and expect the same. McDonald's sex doesn't do it for me. Sex should be more like a seven course meal. I like to enjoy it, experiment with how we uniquely respond to each other. I'm not interested in random hookups. It will take several messages, and a face to face before I decide if we're compatible. Some things I like: Sweat slippery bodies sliding together. Taking photos and videos of us for our personal viewing pleasure. Ropes, tying you up and teasing you mercilessly! Watching you get off riding on me! Riding you, taking my time. Rest, repeat. Exploring how our bodies fold together in endless variations. Rubber sheets and olive oil. Oral – giving and receiving Nipples! The kind of woman that I'm looking for is someone who is deeply sensual, loves touching, kissing, sucking, stroking, biting, ... There's nothing better than spending time with someone doing normal things, going for a walk or shopping, dining out, and having every little glance and touch transmitting electric desire, and knowing we're both waiting for the moment when we're alone and can get naked! I have some female friends who love to play, so bisexual or bicurious is a definite plus. Friends: I am looking for like-minded friends here. If we hit it off, we can start arranging private parties. Chat/Email: I definitely prefer physical contact, but I'm open to connecting with women with talented tongues and a way with words! Photo exchange: Sure, let's play with cameras.

My Ideal Person Let's see, a french horn playing (oh that embouchure – amazing strength and stamina) writer chemist who dabbles in gymnastics and loves to cook! If that's you, let me know.
Really, there's no such thing as ideal. A positive attitude, open mind, and sexy body go a long way.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Threesomes, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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